Hi there!
My name is Jennifer & I am the creator of Embracing the Hot Mess. I'm a tattooed 44-year-old, divorcee, mom of an adopted, biracial daughter, who is my heart! I'm known as the "Hot Mess Guru," but as of current, to pay the bills, I'm a full-time Radiology Technologist of a little over 14 years. My early background was in Hospitality. I love to laugh...a lot, listen to lots of different types of music (BSB fangirl forever), watch comedians & comedies, & spend snuggle time with my two cats, Phoebe & Piper. I'm addicted to lip gloss & chapstick! LOL 😊 I'm a Capricorn & enjoy all things astronomy related. I love to organize & decorate & give gifts! I love holidays & party planning, homemade or professional spa treatments, manicures, traveling, going to concerts, movie night snuggles, pizza & Dr. Pepper! I recently became a certified Life Coach with a specialty in High Conflict Negotiation Coaching & cannot wait for my next steps with this passion!
On my journey, I have endured many struggles & some hardships, & I work with depression, anxiety & Complex-PTSD due to childhood trauma from unhealthy parenting, & then falling in love with a Covert narcissist, which continued the trauma survival coping up until about 5+years ago when I finally said enough is enough. Of course, there's still a grieving process of getting through past wounds, getting over triggers, & recognizing self-worth & gaining self-awareness. I'm working hard to become the woman I want to be. Thank goodness for therapy & good friends!
I have found a man who is quite amazing, in fact, he has become my anchor through his understanding, communicating, genuine honesty & respect. He provides a safe environment to be me, flaws & all, while showing me reciprocated & unconditional affection & support, which has basically been a foreign thing to me in my past life.
I remind myself with affirmations & mantras that I am worthy of love, I am enough, & I deserve the life I dream of & work towards. These mantras are what I hope to instill & spark within you.
I am 100% NOT a licensed therapist. I am 100% NOT a legal professional. I am, however, as mentioned before, a certified Life Coach. I am also, able to provide my good listening skills, share sound advice, & I am an empath who can relate to the feelings & emotions of others. I genuinely love to help others & hope that I can help inspire, uplift, encourage, & entertain you!! ❤️
Welcome to the ride & Thanks for visiting!! All aboard!! Choo-choo!! 🚂
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