I had an overwhelming feeling of need, to share this thought with everyone today.
"TO THE WOMAN WHO IS SLOWLY FADING...
To the woman who has lost her spark.
To the woman whose get up & go, has went & truly gone.
This is for you. 💚
This is to remind you, that you don't have to be everything to everyone, every day.
You didn't sign up for that.
Remember when you used to laugh? Sing? Throw caution to the wind?
Remember when you used to forgive yourself more quickly for not always being perfect?
You can get that back!
You really can!
And that doesn't have to mean letting people down or walking away.
It just means being kinder to you, feeling brave enough to say "No" sometimes.
Being brave enough to STOP sometimes. And rest.
It starts the moment you realize that you're not quite who you used to be.
Some of that is good, some of that is not.
There are parts of you that need to be brought back. And if anyone in your life is not okay with that... They are NOT your people. Your people will be glad to see that spark starting to light up again.
So, if you have been slowly fading away my friend, this is the time to start saying "YES" to things that bring you joy & "NO" to things that don't.
It's really pretty simple..."
~ Author Unknown
So they say...
...But I know it's actually a lot harder than this, but the premise is a good one. You at least need to be at a point in your life where you wake up one day & finally say to yourself..."This is no longer serving me. I'm out! I'm done! I deserve better!" Whatever you say to yourself, the point is, you finally wake up & realize you have worth, you ARE worthy of all things you desire, & at the same time realize that you're not getting your full quota. That's when those rusty gears start winding up & you dust yourself off, pick yourself up, & you start making changes...demand it! You deserve what you dream of. Manifest it!
Because let's face it...
Healing is hard...
There are so many ups & downs & the emotions that come are so raw & biting. You will, eventually, get to a point, if you haven't made it there yet your time is near, where you will dry your eyes, brush out your hair, take a shower, put on some jeans, throw on some mascara & turn your rockin' jams up & you face yourself in the mirror & you tell yourself that you are a BRAVE woman! A WORTHY & DESERVING woman! An INTELLIGENT woman!
You ARE a fierce competitor in this game of Life! And YOU are strong & capable! YOU are rising up from the ashes as the Phoenix stretching her wings against the cool air in the skies & you are ready for the world!!! Reborn with a new purpose!!
YOU ARE A WARRIOR!!! YOU ARE A SURVIVOR!!! YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!
You are now entering a new phase in your life where you start taking care of YOU. You start doing things that bring YOU joy. You begin to learn boundaries & start getting a zest for life back & you are regaining that inner child's spark of light that starts to shine brighter & brighter.
You are becoming who you have always wanted to be... Explore it. Investigate it. Revel in the moments. Breathe in the fresh air. You got this! And we are all behind you 100% & are gonna be the biggest cheerleaders you've ever had!
NOTE: I will leave this link here as well for a source of help & guidance. You are NEVER alone. You are needed. You have a unique light that this world needs to see. Keep your head up. Keep breathing. Help is always here. Please do not hesitate to get help if you are needing it in any way. You're only a call away from a lifeline.
Blessings! May the sun be shining in your corner today! Much love!!💚💚💚